Talk:Find an Address Book and Learn Your Place/@comment-25202711-20180915141447

Look, I wasn't a huge Stanley fan, and I still am not now, but what he said to Kendra is true (or partially true) and it kinda vents my own frustrations with Kendra. She is a character that I HATE, but I LOVE to HATE, and I don't mind reading her, as long as there isn't so much dealing with her emotions and where she thinks she can lie to others while others can't to her. As Stanley said, it is a game, and at first I do sympathize with her, but this IS getting annoying.

Though I don't mind her comparing to the worst player ever, Topher. He losses me off, mainly the most because he reminds me of MYSELF when I suffer from Asperger's Syndrome the most and I have no friends. And I admit back then I acted kinda like Topher where I didn't try to make friends and expect things would magically become better. Back then, no one offered to talk to me, and that made me mope more like Topher, and it ended up in a vicious cycle. While I didn't have the opportunity to get myself out of the vicious cycle, Topher was GIVEN the opportunity to get out of the cycle, what does he do? He denies it. It is almost like he WANTS to continue in the vicious cycle where the whole world will try and help him. I really want to grab him and yell at him at what I eventually realized earlier in my life:

THE WORLD DOES NOT REVOLVE AROUND YOU. People don't have any obligation to change you, if they don't, it is not their problem. Your life is directed by YOU AND YOURSELF. The only way you get the way you want, is to FREAKING TRY AND CHANGE IT YOURSELF AND NOT HOPE FOR STUFF TO MAGICALLY HAPPEN.

Seriously, everything abput him frustrates me to no end and I can't wait for his interview so I can shove all that in his face