Talk:This is Bermuda, Not Bed and Breakfast/@comment-25323662-20170620083112/@comment-26485526-20170620181427

The reason that Gwen is getting on my nerves is because she's not even trying to fit in. Let me be clear here, I have put up with quite a bit of bullying myself in junior high and high school (although junior high was the worst of it). So I completely empathize with how Gwen is feeling. However, she is assuming the worst about every single person. Ryan and Maria walk off together, and Gwen automatically thinks they hate her, despite the fact that neither of them have done anything to her! This is not to condone the things Celia has said to Gwen, but as Xavier said to her, fitting in is a two-way street. She can't jut walk in and expect people to automatically like her.

Gwen needs to suck it up, put on her big-girl panties, and start moving forward. Trust me, I know from personal experience that it is much easier said than done, but she needs to at least try, and she's not doing that. Again, the part that pissed me off most about Gwen is when she said that Maria and Ryan "hated her" because they walked off without her, even though Gwen never asked to come along, and even though Maria and Ryan did nothing to her, she still made that assumption.

Furthermore, people don't want to be around someone that constantly has a negative attitude. Especially since Gwen goes off crying whenever someone says something remotely negative to her, it is physically draining to be around someone like that 24/7. Once again, I can completely empathize with Gwen, and I do agree that Celia is being a bitch. But the part that pisses me off the most is how Gwen isn't even trying to be happy and is constantly fishing for sympathy.